I’d better start this by pointing out that every relationship is different. Some of what I say in this blog may make sense for your relationship and some might not. I’m a third-generation jeweler, and that means I’ve been involved in engagements for a very long time. I can’t tell you how many nervous customers I’ve helped, how many calls or visits I’ve received with the exciting news of an accepted proposal. I can’t claim to be an expert but with all of my customers’ experiences and some research online, I feel comfortable making some suggestions to you.
There are a number of signs that it might be time to pop the question. Your partner may show sudden interest in jewelry. Your partner might start noticing other people's engagement rings or casually ask about jewelry styles. Sometimes it’s not overtly engagement rings but they want to get you in front of a jewelry in a showroom. That could definitely be a hint.
You may also notice your partner becoming more budget conscious or saving money more aggressively. This could be them preparing for finances to be joined together. They might become more conscious about spending to prioritize saving money for a ring. The spending habits, when added to changes in behavior (maybe nervousness or even just substitution of the words me and I with us and we. If you can't picture life without them and feel deeply connected, it might be time to act.
Are you unable to envision a future without your partner? It’s time for some open conversations about the future, then. Even something like, “Where do you see us in five years?” can be very helpful. It the answer is, “Together,” you’re in good shape, right?
If you need an engagement ring in San Diego, get in touch. We have an enormous inventory of vintage rings and thousands of designs for new rings that are always made to order for you. I can promise you that you’ll be glad you talked to us.
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